LIFE IS AN UTTER FAILURE IF SON FAIL TO PROVIDE HIS PARENTS (in their old age) THE SAME (if not more!) COMFORT, LUXURY, CARING THAT HE ENJOYS WITH HIS WIFE IN SPITE OF ACHIEVING HIGHEST DEGREE OF SUCCESS (BE IT MBA/ENGG/MEDICAL) THAT HE HAS EARNED AT THE EXPENSE OF HIS PARENTS SACRIFICE!!!

Have you ever heard parents dumping their few months old baby to an orphanage (or for that matter gave their struggling unemployed SON a DEADLINE of 30Days to pack off from their house) simply because they cannot compromise their privacy due to their growing son who has become a NUISANCE and troubling the parents in their day2day Life???

Yes, above behavior is shocking and all the more difficult to digest if Parents come from rich families!!

But we are so used to vice-versa scenario to above situation and treat it as nothing shocking and very easy to digest as a common behavior (too common nowadays in Rich families) when we hear a person after marriage dumping his parents (to die either in a separate home or in an old age home) for the same reason that his parents could have dumped the person when he was born OR during his struggling unemployed student days!!!

Nothing shocking if Children after growing up, avoid the responsibility of looking after their parents (by dumping them either in a separate home or in an old age home to die) who never do the same after mother give birth to a child when they could have dumped their child to any orphanage!!!

But Shocking fact is that above dumping of parents happen in Rich families (living in 3-4BHK or Bunglows in India or abroad) whereas people living in SLUMS even today stay with their parents in a single room with a SAREE or BEDSHEET used as a divider wall between parents and their Son’s family!!!
Lets create SEVEN scenarios and realize its natural effect  on an INDIVIDUAL who must assess the aftermath of same behavior if practiced by his Parents and compare them in a “SHOCKING” chart as under :

SHOCKING CHART depicting both “NO SHOCK” if practiced by SON on his parents and “HIGHLY SHOCKING” if same Behavior practiced by PARENTS on their Sons.
SL No.	Behavior practiced by a PERSON which is neither shocking nor difficult to Digest even if Person is rich.	Same Behavior practiced by PARENTS which is absolutely shocking and difficult to Digest, irrespective of Parents being rich or poor!!!
01.	Dumping old Parents to separate home or in an old age home simply because they cannot compromise their newly married privacy being violated by the TANTRUMS created by the parents. OR Son has no choice but to send back his mother as one month is enough for old mother to stay with her son. The silent eyes of Mother-Son express the untold pain to each other!  Son cries behind a tea stall (as mother’s train leave the platform) thanking mother for not ever asking money for his upbringing, not ever setting a DEADLINE of 30Days to pack off from her house(else bring money), and tolerate all his nuisance during his struggling unemployed student days and above all for not sending him off to a distant place (like hostel)  to enjoy her own personal life and privacy!!	Dumping a Few months old baby to an orphanage simply because they cannot compromise their newly married privacy being violated by the TANTRUMS of the Child. OR Mother asking for money from son for his upbringing days OR gave her SON a DEADLINE of 30Days to pack off from her house as his presence was interrupting her personal life and privacy  during her son’s growing up struggling days!!!
02.	Find excuses for refusing to tag along his parents to his house in India or abroad as his privacy rule supreme over parents desperate wish to see his house or Grand Children, if failed to find excuses, then must pack up parents and dump them back to where they came from latest by 30 Days, else utensils start banging to each other in kitchen.	Refuse to tag along his child for holiday in India or abroad as their  privacy rule supreme over child/son/daughter’s desperate wish to see a new place along with their parents.
03.	Person asking wife whether to send money to his parents or not, even when Parents are hospitalized.	Father asking mother whether to send money to his child/son/daughter, when they are studying abroad or in Indian colleges.
04.	During sickness, Parents get admitted in Govt Hospital while his wife get admitted in FORTIS.	During sickness, child/son/daughter admitted in Govt Hospital while his wife get admitted in FORTIS. Non-shocking is reverse scenario.
05.	Spend millions in marriage of his son while same marriage day if parents fall sick, no money to pay for his/her medicine, even if the Person inherit his ancestral business created by his parents.	Spend millions in wife’s marriage anniversary while same anniversary day if child/son/daughter fall sick, no money to pay for their medicine.
06.	Father giving away his 90% share in family business to his son and nephew, keeping only 10% in his wife’s name and after father’s death his son and nephew liquidate mother’s share of 10% and divide it amongst themselves (son and nephew).	Father giving away his 90% share in family business to his wife and UNMARRIED Daughters and leave only 10% for his son and nephew.
07.	Sons claiming every penny of their father’s property/asset but vice-versa is just not possible.	Father claiming every penny of son’s property/asset but vice-versa is just not possible.

After Introspection, I do realize why few handful Sons thank their mother for neither asking money from their son during his upbringing days NOR gave her SON a DEADLINE of 30Days to pack off from her house as his presence was interrupting mum’s personal life and privacy  during her son’s growing up struggling days; thus fully justifying the son’s crave for finding peace in sleeping on their mother’s lap or repent for not serving their ailing father!!!

LIFE IS AN UTTER FAILURE IF SON FAIL TO PROVIDE HIS PARENTS (in their old age) THE SAME (IF NOT MORE!!!) COMFORT, LUXURY, CARING THAT HE ENJOYS WITH HIS WIFE IN SPITE OF ACHIEVING HIGHEST DEGREE OF SUCCESS (BE IT MBA/ENGG/MEDICAL) THAT HE HAS EARNED AT THE EXPENSE OF HIS PARENTS SACRIFICE!!!

Moral of the story is you can achieve your dream but no dream is complete without fulfilling your dream of sleeping on your old mother’s lap which will never remain with you forever, hence make use of it most in your lifetime ELSE repent forever!!!

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